As my graduation approaches I am overwhelmed with thoughts
about the events of the last three years. Many times people speak of regrets
that they have. They mention bad relationships they “should have” avoided or
missed opportunities that have affected their lives in damaging ways.
I don’t believe in
regrets. I believe that everything that has happened in my life; every mistake
I have made, every dumb choice, every opportunity I have missed, has happened
to make me the person I am today. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t always love the
person I am, but I don’t ever hate who I am. Regretting things I have done
undermines the person I am and the lessons I have learned.
However, I had the thought lately, “Who, what and where
would I be if I didn't have Crohn’s Disease?”
Who would I be? Would I have graduated sooner? Would I still
be single? Would I have better self-image?
What would I be? Would I be a good person? Would I have as
much empathy as I do?
Where would I be? Would I still be living in my parent’s
house? Would I have moved somewhere totally new?
Having Crohn’s Disease and an ileostomy has shaped my life.
It has impacted me both positively and negatively. It has held me back for
sure. Finishing school had to be done at a slower pace. I missed so much work
that I was eventually replaced.
It has also given me a new perspective. I now know what it
is like to be faced with death. I know what it is like to have a disease that
has embarrassing symptoms. I know what it’s like to have my body rip itself
apart and have to be cut open and my insides rerouted. These things have shaped my thinking. They
have given me the chance to make new friends and to help an entire community to
educate the masses. I have gained a family by losing an organ. I have gained my
life back.
You took the words right out of my mouth! I've never asked "why me?" I just roll with whst comes my way and know that for whatever reason, this is who I was meant to be. You're a strong woman & I'm proud to call you FRIEND :-)
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