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I have finally taken the step to join my local ostomy support group.
I thought I would feel uncomfortable because these groups are generally an older crowd. But then I thought... seriously? I am worried about older people? I LOVE older people!
I was right, of course, there was no reason to be worried at all. everyone was friendly right off the bat. When I stood up to introduce myself, I noticed a familiar face. One of my WOCNs (wound, ostomy and continence nurse) from my surgery was there! She recognized me right away. (Still trying to decide if that's a good thing or if I was an exceptional pain in the ass patient.)
At this particular meeting we separated into groups based on the type of ostomy you have; ileostomy, colostomy or urostomy. I sat with the other 8 or 9 people who have ileostomies. We talked about everything from clothing options to health insurance problems.
It really was comfortable and reassuring to sit down and speak with people of all ages, race, economical status who share this situation.
Last night, I had dinner with my cousin. (Hey, S!) Her dad, my uncle, has been through an eerily similar sickness and surgery. He has recently had additional surgeries to get a j-pouch. Talking to her made me realize a very important thing. It is very important for people with ostomies to seek support, but it is equally important for friends and family to have support and community, as well. Those who went under the knife are not the only ones whose lives were thrown upside down. An ostomate's spouse, children, parents, siblings, etc... all had their lives and realities changed.
I am hoping, in the near future, to have feature blog posts written by other ostomates, friends, and family.
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